How does one succeed in life?
10.06.2025 04:25
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
That's it for today.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Why do some films seem to date/age so badly?
Ask yourself:
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
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Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
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Making more friends is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What I need from you?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How would you feel if your girlfriend had dick pics on her phone?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Are you more of a butt guy or a boob guy?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.